I CAN'T ..... VERSUS HOW CAN I .....
How often do you hear “I can’t ……” or how often do you say
it?
Why do we do that, why do we keep saying that we cannot do
something when deep down inside lies the truth – WE CAN! What is it then?
We have been programmed most likely that it is easier to say
“I can’t” because then we do not have to take responsibility; someone else will
tell us how to do something, and guess what, if it doesn’t work out, we can
play the blame game.
It has a lot to do, if not everything, with how our
caretakers addressed this issue when we were small, and from there on a habit
was formed: we either look for a way how to do something or we keep playing
stupid and stay dependent on others.
It all depends also on what you are looking for in life: and
easy way to move through that mud called life or sail the seas full blast
finding stuff out yourself, asking for support when needed saying “How Can
I …”, because we all have certain blind
spots and a shortcut to a solution is always handy and welcome.
Different way of approach. Coming from the victim’s point or
from the explorer’s point.
You see, everything you want and perhaps need to
know, has been done by someone before you, very little has never been done, so
you want to find out where you can find information to get what you want done.
That makes you feel empowered, in control of your own life and destiny.
If you have to wait before others may be able to help you,
too much time is lost along the way to your greatness, so go out and figure it
out.
Best way to figure things out that you do not yet know and
cannot find on the internet, is to go into a deep meditation and ask the
Universe for guidance and help in finding answers. All knowledge is out in the
Universe, in Source Energy or if you prefer in the All-Knowing God.
But you’ve got to learn how to get access to that knowledge,
that is the key!
Tune into that knowledge-stream, tap into it, and l i s t e
n! The latter being the hardest part. You see, we learn to pray, or rather we
mostly pray when we are in dire need of Divine Help, pretty pathetic in my
book. Be in communication all day long with the Universe, keep the door open,
the pump primed, so much easier.
Yet, how to hear the answer?
Well, anything good that takes place in your daily life,
give thanks for it to the Universe. A parking spot – because you just
fleetingly, for a nanosecond wished for a great spot as close to where you
needed to be – and it shows up. GIVE THANKS!
“Wouldn’t it be nice if ….” and indeed whatever it was
showed up, GIVE THANKS!
It is so easy, because if you start making this a daily
habit, things start to work out more and more for you, better and better all
the time. Give thanks for everything you have in your life, good and bad. Bad??
Yes, because it forces you to think to find a better solution – ‘how can I ….’.
Bless the stuff you did not ask for as weird as it may seem.
Besides that, ask any mega successful person and they’ll
tell you: ‘I learned more from my mistakes than from anything in the world’. So
expect to fail in order to learn more.
Have you ever asked yourself why you cannot do certain
things? Check in with yourself why certain things simply won’t work for you. If
you really want something, and the need is always behind that, what seems to be
the problem, where is the stumbling block? Most likely you will discover that
it is in your head, and that is OK, you want to change a habit, the habit of
saying: “I can’t …” and remover those words from your vocabulary and replace
them with “How can I …”.
Now, do give yourself some time, do not beat yourself up,
just keep working diligently on it, every day. Catch yourself when you say it,
or when you are about to say it, then swallow it!
You see, your brain will start to work differently as well.
It loves a challenge; love your brain for it. Your brain will not give you the
answer, it honestly can’t, since your brain is nothing but a chemical and
electrical switching station. However, your mind, which operates the brain can
give you the answer.
Your mind is the connection to the Universe, to the
unlimited stream or source of information, knowledge. Yet you must learn to tap
into that, you have to learn to stop cutting yourself off from that stream. You
do that, nobody else, trust me.
What does it do for you when you open yourself up to
receiving that information? Apart from the fact that it empowers you, makes you
feel happy and makes you feel that you are moving forward with gusto, there is
something else that takes place inside of you. The feelings you get from
allowing yourself to receive the information, create a combination of chemicals
in your body that has far-stretching consequences. These “good” feelings create
what I like to call Happy Life Juice.
What??????
Yep, you heard me well, Happy Life Juice. This is my way of
explaining what I learned from Dr. Candice Pert – Molecules of Emotion.
Your thoughts or feelings which derive from your thoughts stimulate
your brain to create a chemical juice that is mixed into the bloodstream and as
such reaches the cells. Good feelings create the Happy Juice, bad feelings
create the Toxic Juice.
You want to have a happy life, so think positive, feel good
and the Happy Life Juice is created, reaches your cells and nourishes them,
nurtures them, pampers them, encourages them to do their job optimally, i.e.
live healthy to make new cells, growth constantly. Cells die off every second
and have to be replaced every second or you die.
Toxic Juice does not help your
cells grow; it mutilates them, kills them off, diseases
wherever they are,
makes you sick. And you still wonder what made you sick -> your thoughts.
Please do your own research like I did for the past 25 years, and you will come
to the same conclusion:
YOUR THOUGHTS CREATE
THE WELL-BEING OF YOUR BODY!!
So in closing: consider very carefully if you can or cannot
do something, or if you are not willing to do something. Food for thought!
Figure out HOW you CAN do it!
And magic will be created!
I sincerely hope you enjoyed reading the information as much as I enjoyed writing it.
Be well, enjoy life!
Be well, enjoy life!
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And as always, the information I just shared with you is based on many years of training from my mentors, my interpretation of that, connecting the dots, observing human behavior in everyday life, my own interpretation of that again and allowing Source Energy to create this information through me. Do your own research; I am merely expressing what I deeply feel, and perhaps if this information resonates with you, it may perhaps help you move forward.
